This is pretty much how the writers/ Ryan & Co treat Quinn, as far as I'm concerned.

Finn needs to go and take a seat at the far back of the auditorium. And never speak again. And just... stay there. Forever. :P

Exactly. What Finn said was the most douchebag thing he could ever do. Sure, Santana is a bitch and seems unapologetic about it, and I'm not saying she's the nicest person around McKinely, but at least she isn't like Finn who acts like a hypocrite a lot of the time, and, ugh, won't own up to it, which is the worst part! ;P

Anyone who says that what Finn did wasn't so bad or 'oh, she was going to come out anyway at some point' .... are people I don't need to talk to.